Pennsylvania is known for its balance—history and progress, close-knit communities and vibrant cities. From the energy of Philadelphia to the resilience of Pittsburgh, and from the growing suburbs to quieter towns across the state, people in Pennsylvania value sincerity, discretion, and trust in the connections they form.
That is the environment 3Somer was built for.
Founded in 2016, 3Somer is a unicorn and threesome dating app designed for adults in Pennsylvania who approach non-traditional relationships thoughtfully. We provide a structured, respectful space for couples looking for a unicorn and for single women who want to connect with couples on clear, mutually agreed terms.
What Is 3Somer?
3Somer is a purpose-built dating app for unicorn dating and consensual threesomes. Unlike mainstream dating platforms, which often lack the structure needed for these dynamics, we focus exclusively on clarity, consent, and communication.
For people in Pennsylvania—where discretion often matters as much as openness—3Somer offers a way to explore connections without unnecessary exposure or confusion. Our platform is designed to support honest representation and intentional interaction, helping members move forward with confidence.
Built for Unicorn Dating in Pennsylvania
Pennsylvania’s dating landscape is unique. Large metropolitan areas exist alongside smaller communities where privacy and reputation matter. We designed 3Somer to work equally well in both settings.
Whether you are:
- A couple in Philadelphia looking for a thoughtful, genuine unicorn connection
- A unicorn in Pittsburgh searching for experienced, respectful couples
- Exploring unicorn dating in Harrisburg, Allentown, Erie, or the surrounding areas
3Somer helps you connect locally with people who understand the importance of discretion, communication, and aligned expectations.
Verified Members and a Safer Community
In a state where many people value trust built over time, safety is essential. That is why we prioritise verified members and active moderation.
Our verification systems help reduce fake accounts and low-effort profiles, creating a more reliable environment for meaningful conversations. Members on 3Somer are more likely to approach unicorn dating with seriousness and respect—qualities especially important for single women and established couples in Pennsylvania.
Couple Profiles Designed for Transparency
Clear Representation Without Overexposure
Couples on 3Somer create a shared profile while still providing individual information for each partner. This structure reflects real relationships and allows unicorns to understand who they are connecting with before conversations begin.
For unicorns in Pennsylvania, this means:
- Clear visibility into both partners
- Better understanding of personalities and boundaries
- Fewer uncomfortable surprises later
For couples, it encourages honest presentation and accountability, which leads to smoother and more respectful interactions.
Public and Private Photo Albums
Discretion That Fits Pennsylvania Lifestyles
Privacy is especially important in communities where personal and professional circles often overlap. 3Somer’s public and locked photo albums allow members to manage visibility carefully.
Members can:
- Share non-identifying photos publicly
- Keep face photos locked until trust is established
- Decide who has access to private content
This approach allows both couples and unicorns to move at a pace that feels appropriate, without pressure.
What Is a Unicorn?
In dating, a unicorn typically refers to a single woman who is open to connecting with an established couple in a consensual and respectful way. The term reflects how uncommon it can be to find situations where expectations, communication, and boundaries are truly aligned.
On 3Somer, unicorns are treated as full participants—not an afterthought. Our platform is structured to support autonomy, choice, and mutual respect.
What Is Unicorn Dating?
Unicorn dating involves three people exploring a shared connection, with consent and communication at the centre. It requires more clarity than traditional dating, particularly around boundaries and expectations.
Successful unicorn dating depends on:
- Transparency from couples
- Agency and comfort for single women
- Ongoing, respectful dialogue
3Somer provides the structure needed to support these dynamics, especially in a state where discretion and trust matter.
Why Pennsylvanians Choose 3Somer
Designed for Real-World Dynamics
We built 3Somer specifically for unicorn dating—not as an add-on to a mainstream platform. This focus allows us to address the realities of dating in Pennsylvania, where people often value intention over impulsiveness.
Experience That Earns Trust
Since 2016, we have refined our platform based on real experiences from our community. In a niche that depends on reliability, our longevity reflects consistency, responsibility, and long-term commitment.
What Makes 3Somer a Leading Unicorn Dating App in Pennsylvania
3Somer stands apart through thoughtful design and community standards.
- Profiles encourage honesty and clarity
- Privacy tools reflect real-life concerns
- Community guidelines emphasise respect and consent
This creates an environment that appeals to couples and unicorns across Pennsylvania who want meaningful, well-paced connections.
Enhancing the Unicorn Dating Experience
Empowering Unicorns Across PA
We ensure that unicorns remain in control of how they engage. From privacy settings to filtering and communication, single women decide the pace and depth of interaction.
This balance supports healthier dynamics and more positive experiences.
Supporting Couples with Structure
Couples benefit from tools that encourage transparency and alignment. By presenting clear intentions and individual identities, couples can connect with unicorns more effectively and respectfully.
Start Your Unicorn Search in Pennsylvania
If you are in Pennsylvania and looking for a unicorn—or if you are a unicorn looking for respectful couples—3Somer offers a secure, structured, and intentional environment to explore connection.
Join a community built on trust.
Connect with clarity.
Explore with confidence.
3Somer — the unicorn dating app designed for Pennsylvania, since 2016.