Looking for a safe, discreet, and authentic way to meet like-minded couples and open-minded singles in Florida? 3Somer is the modern threesome dating app built specifically for the swinger, lifestyle, and consensually non-monogamous (CNM) community.
Whether you're exploring in Miami, Tampa, Orlando, Fort Lauderdale, or anywhere else in Florida, 3Somer helps you connect with real people, find verified couples, and discover lifestyle-friendly events—without the risks of fake profiles, judgment, or unsafe platforms.
Join Florida's most trusted lifestyle community today.
Designed for the Lifestyle, Not Just Dating
Most dating apps were never built for swingers, open relationships, or ethical non-monogamy. That's why they feel awkward, unsafe, or misled.
3Somer was created specifically for people exploring:
- Swinger dating
- Threesomes
- Open relationships
- Ethical non-monogamy (ENM)
- Lifestyle dating
- Poly-curious connections
- Couple-to-couple matching
We understand that lifestyle dating requires more than swiping—it requires trust, clarity, boundaries, and discretion.
Why Florida's Swinger Community Chooses 3Somer
Florida has one of the most active lifestyle scenes in the country. But finding trustworthy people is still difficult. Social media groups, random forums, and generic dating apps are full of fake profiles, scammers, and unsafe interactions.
3Somer solves that.
We built a platform where lifestyle-minded people can connect without fear of exposure, judgment, or misrepresentation.
What Makes 3Somer Different
- Built specifically for swingers and CNM relationships
- Verified profiles for higher trust
- Couples-first matching tools
- Local discovery for real-world connections
- Strong privacy and visibility controls
- Respectful, consent-based community rules
This isn't about casual browsing. It's about intentional, safe, and authentic connection.
Safety, Discretion, and Trust Come First
The biggest concern in lifestyle dating is safety—and we take that seriously.
Profile Verification
Users can verify their identity, drastically reducing fake accounts and catfishing. Verified users receive higher visibility and more meaningful matches.
Advanced Privacy Controls
Protect your privacy with 3Somer's public and locked photo albums—share public photos with the community or keep private photos visible only to users you approve.
Active Moderation
Our team actively monitors activity, enforces consent-based communication rules, and removes suspicious behavior.
Secure Messaging
All conversations are encrypted, so your chats stay private.
We believe that a real lifestyle community must be built on trust—not guesswork.
Meet Real People Near You
3Somer is optimized for local discovery across Florida.
If you're searching for:
- A swinger app in Florida
- Threesome-friendly couples near me
- Lifestyle dating in Miami
- Swinger meetups in Tampa
- Open-minded singles in Orlando
- CNM dating near Fort Lauderdale
You're in the right place.
Our smart matching system prioritizes:
- Location proximity
- Relationship compatibility
- Shared preferences
- Verified users
This means fewer awkward conversations and more meaningful matches.
Discover Lifestyle Events, Clubs, and Communities
Finding real lifestyle spaces can be difficult—especially if you're new or discreet.
With 3Somer, you can:
- Discover swinger-friendly events
- Find lifestyle clubs near you
- Get access to private gatherings
- Explore community-hosted meetups
- Stay informed about local happenings
Instead of searching random forums, everything is centralized, curated, and safety-focused.
Made for Couples and Singles
3Somer supports all lifestyle dynamics:
- Couples searching for a unicorn
- Couples meeting couples
- Singles joining couples
- Open relationships
- Poly-curious individuals
We encourage honesty, clarity, and mutual respect. Your profile lets you define your boundaries, preferences, and relationship style—so everyone is on the same page.
How 3Somer Works
- Create your profile
Set your preferences, relationship type, and privacy controls. - Verify your identity
Optional, but highly recommended for better matches. - Match locally
Our algorithm connects you with compatible users nearby. - Chat securely
Private, encrypted messaging. - Meet safely
At your comfort level—public spaces, group events, or curated meetups.
Real Community, Real Trust
Thousands of lifestyle-minded users across Florida rely on 3Somer as their main connection platform.
They choose us because:
- They're tired of fake profiles
- They want real lifestyle connections
- They value discretion
- They care about consent
- They want a community, not chaos
Common Questions
- What is the best swinger app in Florida?
3Somer is designed specifically for the Florida lifestyle and swinger community, with verified users, privacy controls, and local discovery. - Is 3Somer safe to use?
Yes. 3Somer uses profile verification, encrypted messaging, and active moderation to create a secure environment. - Can couples create a joint profile?
Yes. Couples can manage shared profiles, boundaries, and matches together. - Is this app only for threesomes?
No. While threesomes are common, 3Somer supports all forms of consensual non-monogamy. - Does 3Somer work in my city?
Yes. We support local discovery across Florida, including Miami, Orlando, Tampa, Jacksonville, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, and more.
A Judgment-Free Space for Open-Minded People
3Somer is not about pressure, performance, or expectations. It's about:
- Mutual consent
- Honest intentions
- Emotional intelligence
- Respectful exploration
- Authentic community
We believe lifestyle dating should feel empowering—not risky.
Join Florida's Lifestyle Community Today
If you've been searching for a real swinger app in Florida that prioritizes safety, authenticity, and local connection—3Somer is your home.
No fake profiles.
No judgment.
No awkward explanations.
Just real people who understand your lifestyle.