Finding a genuine unicorn in the UK is often more difficult than people expect. Many individuals and couples who are curious about open relationships or consensual threesomes quickly discover that mainstream dating apps are not designed for these dynamics. Intentions are misunderstood, privacy feels uncertain, and conversations can become uncomfortable or judgmental.
Since launching in 2016, 3SOMER has been created specifically to address these challenges. As a leading dating app for unicorns, couples, and open-minded individuals, 3SOMER offers a discreet, respectful, and supportive environment for people who want to explore their desires without pressure or stigma. Recognised by respected media outlets such as The Sun (UK), 3SOMER has grown into a trusted platform for alternative dating across the UK.
What Are Unicorns in Modern Dating?
In modern dating, the term “unicorn” typically refers to an individual—often a woman—who is open to connecting with a couple or with partners who are already in an open relationship. These connections may involve dating, companionship, or consensual intimacy, but always with mutual understanding and consent.
Unicorns are often described as “rare,” not because they do not exist, but because many are highly selective. Most unicorns value:
- Equal treatment and mutual respect
- Clear communication from the beginning
- Strong personal boundaries
- Emotional and physical safety
- Discretion and control over their privacy
Contrary to common stereotypes, unicorns are not seeking attention or casual involvement without boundaries. Many are thoughtful, experienced, and intentional about who they choose to connect with and how those connections develop.
What Is Unicorn Dating?
Unicorn dating refers to dating experiences that involve open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, or consensual threesomes, where everyone involved understands the relationship structure and agrees to it freely.
Unlike traditional dating, unicorn dating requires:
- Transparency about intentions and expectations
- Respect for boundaries and autonomy
- Honest communication from all parties
Because of these requirements, unicorn dating rarely works well on traditional dating apps. Users are often forced to explain themselves repeatedly, face judgment, or encounter people who are curious but not genuinely prepared for open relationship dynamics.
Why Unicorn Dating Can Be So Challenging
For both unicorns and those seeking them, common challenges include:
- Being misunderstood or mislabelled on mainstream platforms
- Facing stigma or unwanted attention
- Difficulty finding people who genuinely respect open relationship values
- Concerns about sharing photos or personal information too early
As a result, many unicorns leave dating apps altogether, while couples and open-minded individuals struggle to find meaningful, respectful connections.
These challenges highlight the need for a platform built specifically for this type of dating.
A Platform Designed for Unicorn Dating and Open Relationships
3SOMER is not a general dating app adapted for open relationships. It is purpose-built for people exploring consensual non-monogamy, unicorn dating, and open relationships.
From the moment users join, they are encouraged to clearly state their intentions, preferences, and boundaries. This transparency helps reduce misunderstandings and creates a healthier environment where conversations begin with clarity rather than explanation.
On 3SOMER, users can:
- Meet unicorns who genuinely understand open relationship dynamics
- Avoid awkward or misleading conversations
- Connect with like-minded people across the UK
- Explore desires in a space designed for consent and respect
Why Unicorns Choose 3SOMER
Unicorns tend to be cautious about where they invest their time and trust. Many choose 3SOMER because the platform prioritises privacy, autonomy, and respectful interaction.
Privacy-First Design
Privacy is central to the 3SOMER experience. Users have full control over what they share and with whom.
One of the most valued features is the ability to upload locked private albums. These albums remain hidden until the user chooses to grant access, ensuring that photos are only shared with trusted individuals.
This allows users to:
- Protect their identity
- Share photos at their own pace
- Enjoy discreet dating without public exposure
Strong privacy controls help build trust and encourage more genuine engagement across the community.
A Respectful, Non-Judgmental Community
3SOMER promotes a culture of consent, respect, and understanding. Members join knowing the purpose of the platform, which reduces stigma and inappropriate behaviour.
For unicorns, this means:
- Fewer uncomfortable explanations
- Clearer intentions from others
- A safer space to explore desires authentically
Established, Trusted, and Recognised Since 2016
Since its launch in 2016, 3SOMER has grown alongside the evolving landscape of modern relationships. With nearly a decade of experience, our platform has earned a strong reputation as a trusted space for unicorn dating and open relationships built on consent, clarity, and respect.
Over the years, 3SOMER has been discussed by respected lifestyle and relationship publications such as YourTango, Inverse, and Bustle, reflecting broader cultural conversations around ethical non-monogamy and alternative dating. This continued media recognition supports the platform’s credibility and visibility within the UK and beyond.
The steadily growing UK user base highlights a clear demand for a dating app that prioritises discretion, honesty, and authentic connection, offering people a safer and more intentional way to explore open-minded relationships.
Explore Your Desires Without Compromising Privacy
Whether you are a unicorn seeking respectful connections, or an individual or couple exploring open relationships, 3SOMER provides the tools and community needed to navigate these experiences with confidence.
This is a platform where curiosity is respected, boundaries are honoured, and connections are built thoughtfully. Users are encouraged to move at their own pace and engage only in ways that feel right to them.
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Why 3SOMER Is the Right Choice for Unicorn Dating in the UK
- Designed specifically for unicorns and open relationships
- Clear intentions and consent-focused connections
- Strong privacy controls, including locked private albums
- Established platform with years of experience
- Trusted by a growing UK community
- Recognised by respected UK media
Finding a unicorn does not have to feel impossible. With the right platform, the right community, and the right values, it becomes a respectful and rewarding experience.
3SOMER — discreet unicorn dating and open relationships, built on trust.