Welcome to 3Somer—the leading app built from the ground up for couples to explore together. Whether you're curious about inviting a third or connecting with like-minded couples, this is your invitation to turn shared curiosity into meaningful connection. Ready to discover what's possible, as one?
What Is Dating for Couples?
Couple dating is a space designed for partners who want to explore different relationship dynamics in a safe and supportive environment. It goes beyond traditional dating, offering couples the freedom to experiment with adventures such as threesomes, swinging, polyamory, and building connections with new partners—whether it’s another couple, a third person, or a throuple.
Unlike typical dating apps, 3Somer focuses specifically on couples who want to explore non-traditional relationships. Whether you're looking to add a third person to your dynamic, form a polyamorous bond, or try out swinging, this app is tailored to help you navigate these experiences without judgment or unwanted attention.
Explore as One: Your Paths to Shared Connection
Rekindle Your Spark with a Unicorn
Find a confident woman who’s genuinely interested in joining a couple—not just a profile. Your Joint Couple Profile on 3Somer showcases your unique dynamic from the start, attracting matches who are already aligned with both of you. It’s about fostering a connection that complements your relationship, not complicates it.
Introduce New Energy with a Bull
Looking to connect with a single man? Whether you're looking for physical intimacy or just exploring new experiences, we make it easy to find a respectful bull who understands and values your relationship. Communicate your boundaries clearly, and enjoy the experience knowing you're both in sync.
Double the Fun with Another Couple
Looking for a couple who shares your vibe and interests? Our local search helps you discover nearby couples ready to explore mutual experiences. It’s about creating a dynamic that feels right for all parties, where both couples feel equally respected and engaged.
Build Deeper Bonds in a Throuple
A throuple offers more than just a fleeting connection—it’s about building a meaningful, lasting relationship with a third partner. 3Somer helps you find individuals who are looking for more than a moment. By fostering communication and trust from the start, the app provides a safe space to grow your connection.
Grow Together through Polyamory
Polyamory is about expanding your emotional and sexual connections with multiple partners, ethically and transparently. We bring together couples and individuals who value open, honest relationships. Find others who share your commitment to consent, transparency, and building meaningful connections.
Designed for Two: How We Keep Your Journey Safe & Aligned
Your Unified Front: The Joint Couple Profile
Why juggle separate accounts? With 3Somer, you and your partner share one unified profile. This saves time, provides clarity, and helps potential matches see your dynamic right from the start. It’s a simpler, more authentic way to engage with others while maintaining the integrity of your relationship.
Privacy, Held in Your Hands
Your privacy isn’t an setting—it’s your right. Feel confident sharing intimate moments because our Locked Private Albums give you and your partner exclusive control. Decide together what to share, and with whom. Your explorations remain a private chapter in your story.
Connect with Confidence, Not Guesswork
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, especially in non-traditional ones. With our Profile Verification process, we help ensure that every member is genuine. You can connect with confidence, knowing the people you interact with are real and verified.
Find What You’re Looking For—Nearby
Want to connect with local couples or singles? 3Somer makes it easy with our Local Search feature. Whether you’re looking for a couple, a unicorn, or someone to add new energy to your relationship, our app helps you find compatible matches in your area to turn your shared interests into exciting plans.
How to Get Started?
Getting started is simple! Just create your couple profile, and you're ready to explore the world of couple dating. Customize your search by filtering preferences, and start connecting with others who share your desires. Whether you're curious about threesomes, polyamory, or something else, we make it easy to take the first step on your new adventure.
Tips for Couples Dating
Explore New Fantasies
The key to a fulfilling couple dating experience is openness. Discuss and experiment with your desires, whether it’s a weekend getaway with your unicorn or a casual date with another couple. Make sure both of you are comfortable and excited about exploring new dynamics.
Set Clear Boundaries
Clear communication is essential when navigating non-traditional relationships. Be upfront about what you’re comfortable with, and make sure you both respect the boundaries of others involved. This helps create a healthy, positive experience for everyone.
Keep It Fun
Couple dating is about enjoyment and discovery. Embrace the thrill of new experiences—whether it’s connecting with new people or trying something you’ve never considered before. Keep the atmosphere light and fun to make the journey as exciting as possible.
Maintain Trust and Respect
At the heart of any successful couple dating experience is trust. Openly communicate with your partner, share your feelings, and respect each other’s desires. This foundation of trust will enhance every connection you make.